Know, that most clothes have interesting features on them that, when chosen with knowledge will draw the eye away from the widest or most dominant part of your body - this is something we will go into in more detail further in the book.

Hopefully he did not leave you for someone else. If so you probably think it was because he found someone prettier than you. You might be surprised to discover it is not necessarily so. Typically she is usually quite ordinary. Your first reaction will be to wonder "what does she have that I don't?" It all comes down to the science of how she makes him feel.

D - Dress for him. Some women don't think much about what they wear, with the excuse that they're just not into the "latest" fashion. Or, they will dress nice when they go to church, or out with girlfriends, but not put much effort into how they look for "just my husband." But men can recognize "frumpy" even if we can't. And dress for him at night, too. Your husband might be majorly turned off by a "grandma" night gown that resembles something his mother used to wear! So, it may be time to invest in some All about lingerie Panties bra company.com or just something 'form flattering' or feminine.

L - Leave the lights on. Need I say more? As a man, your husband is visually wired. And it's believed men see in soft focus anyway, meaning your man is not nearly as critical of your body as you are. Make the most of what you have to offer him and trust he'll appreciate it.

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