I suppose I should set the scene and explain a couple of things. I've been fortunate sufficient to have a FWB whom really enjoys pleasing me personally. I'm a decade older than her and it makes no distinction in anything that we agree to-do together, it actually adds rather an interesting difference of view points. She looks to me personally for guidance, sexual knowledge, self-confidence building, and many importantly a real friendship. we enjoy her as much as possible, and offering her with pleasure whenever feasible. We recently found that we fall into the dom/sub aspect and frequently find ourselves testing one another, creating scenarios where one of us will lose a bet and the winner then assigns a punishment, which is always fun and safe. A few days ago she found by herself with a punishment being awarded to her